Over the years, I've had a front-row seat to more affairs than I care to count. Not because I've been having them, I should add, but because being a dating columnist means people confess things to me that they probably wouldn't tell even their closest friends. True story: I had to pause my weekly 'saucy secret' confessionals on Instagram because I was flooded with so many cheating stories that I started to get a little bummed out by the whole thing. Is anyone monogamous anymore? Anyway, after listening to countless tales about married men and the women they're sleeping with, I've noticed the same pattern play out time and again. In so many…
