Ashley Earle (née Dupre) was “reckless” in her relationship with now-husband Thomas “TJ” Earle, she confessed in a new op-ed. Alix Earle’s stepmom wrote in an Elle piece, published Monday, that she and the then-married businessman “crossed a line [they] shouldn’t have crossed” when their romance began in 2008. “I met TJ by chance at a local restaurant in New Jersey, Parker House,” she explained. “We talked for five or six hours, and our connection was immediate.” Dupré, 41, added that she “take[s] responsibility” for her role, admitting her and TJ’s “choices affected and hurt other people, including his wife, Alisa [Earle], and…