Dolly Parton has announced the death of her reclusive husband Carl Thomas Dean after he passed away at the age of 82.
The country singer, 79, confirmed his passing in a statement on Instagram on Monday (March 3), saying he had died in Nashville on March 3.
She said: “Carl and I spent many wonderful years together. Words can’t do justice to the love we shared for over 60 years. Thank you for your prayers and sympathy.”
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Carl, renowned for staying out of the spotlight, is survived by his siblings, Sandra and Donnie, and will be laid to rest in a private ceremony with immediate family.
He and Dolly were married since 1966.
Despite her global fame, Carl largely avoided the spotlight.
In 2024, she spoke about his preference for privacy on Bunnie Xo’s Dumb Blonde podcast, explaining: “He loves music, but he’s not the least bit interested in being in it.”
Dolly also recalled a moment early in their marriage when she convinced him to attend an awards show in 1967, where she won BMI Song of the Year.
Despite the win, Carl told her: “I wish you the best, but don’t ever ask me to go to another one of these damn things because I ain’t going.”
Dolly has frequently spoken about their relationship, crediting their shared sense of humour for its longevity.
She said: “He’s quiet and I’m loud, and we’re funny… we have a lot of fun.”
The singer and Carl first met at a laundromat in Nashville in 1964, when Parton was 18.
She later spoke about the encounter in Dolly Parton: In Her Own Words, saying: “I walked outside, there was this good-looking man that drove by the Wishy-Washy laundromat. And he pulled over to the side. So we started talking and we married two years later.”
Despite staying out of the limelight, Carl has inspired some of Parton’s work, including her 1973 hit Jolene.
Speaking to NPR in 2008, she said: “She got this terrible crush on my husband. And he just loved going to the bank because she paid him so much attention.”
Years later, while at the Glastonbury festival, she added: “I wrote that years ago when my husband… was spending a little more time with ‘Jolene’ than I thought he should be. I put a stop to that. I got rid of that redhead woman in a hurry.”
Though Carl never attended events with her, Parton said they found ways to maintain their romance.
In 2022, she told E! News: “Every day, I put on some makeup and fix my hair because I think, ‘Well, the whole world, I’m out here and everybody else sees me all dressed up, and I’m not going to just kind of go home and just flop on him.'”
In her 2017 book Dolly on Dolly: Interviews and Encounters with Dolly Parton, the country veteran said: “Men are my weakness.
“Short, fat, bald or skinny — I’ve had crushes on some very unusual men but Carl knows I’ll always come home. He’s not jealous and I’m not jealous of him.”
Speaking on The Zoe Ball Breakfast Show on BBC Radio 2 in 2023, she said their relationship lasted because of “love and respect”, adding: “You know, I would have liked him if he wasn’t my husband. If he was somebody else’s husband, I’d say, ‘You know that Carl Dean, ain’t he funny? Ain’t he a good guy?'”
Dolly has previously said Carl has only seen her perform once.
She told Entertainment Tonight about a conversation where he said: “I didn’t choose this world, I chose you, and you chose that world. But we can keep our lives separate and together.”
In 2011, she told the Toronto Sun: “We’re really very proud of our marriage. It’s the first for both of us. And the last.”
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